Don’t get me wrong If you’re a Christian – coz I too was born and bred in a family that observed all the rituals there is in the faith and maybe more.  This includes being pinched by Gradma during Angelus time (6PM prayer at home) and I can’t recite stuff by memory spontaneously.
Travelling and meeting all kinds of people from different parts of the world.  Living in Sri Lanka made me understand Buddhism,Hinduism, & Islam much deeper. I’ve visited friends, ‘been invited to countless celebrations even in the streets where they invite you to dine with them FOR FREE!  I became more conscious of what it means to be not just a Christian, but to be human.  To the Atheists, I am stupid – I do believe in God. To the harcore believers, I could be that person they won’t want their kids to mix around with, I’m what they’ll call “too worldly, too secular.” I was even questioned once in a gathering, “how is it being a DJ and being a believer?” A Church leader enquired in a condescending tone mind you.  I just said with a big mouth-tearing smile “IT’S FUN” and I added “YOU? ARE YOU HAVING FUN?” Â
The fundamentalists in most faiths (of any kind) would judge you that in the afterlife, If you are not a member of their religion – you’ll be simply a wandering soul or you’ll be punished, maybe burn forever and will suffer pain that no one can fathom, or you’ll be punished the way you’ve treated others while you were still living on earth.  This is something I can’t understand, an issue I have with people and groups who believe in them and yet see the most wicked practices from them. For being a Filipno, I’ve made friends at one time at one Church I used to go to coz I bring my kid there for her Sunday school. Name all the funny things that their employers do, I’ve probably heard of them, yes, including non-stop mahjong after the service, maids drinks/meals measured daily,  It’s amazing what information you can fish from Domestic Helpers.
When I lived in Dubai in 2002, I found that the most hospitable and warmest of people are the Arabs. My hairdresser’s an Iraqi guy, my computer admin pal’s from Syria, my party buddies are from Morroccans, Syrians, & Jordanians.  What’s admirable about my Arab buddies was that they didn’t have to consume alcohol to be happy and high, they’re naturally in high spirits, always up for a good fun,  a great long drive, boisterous laughter, non-stop jokes, they’re simply nice brothers from a different world and I love and miss them a lot!
Why am I sharing this to you? Mate, it’s Easter Weekend, in my faith it’s what we call JESUS HAS RISEN, or the Redeemer lives. But, there’s more to that than meets the eye.  In the present age, I see many people who have embraced this faith and still miss the point – the point of simply ”BE NICE.” And as always, misses the point of the offensive motto “DO UNTO OTHERS” it didn’t say “DON’T” it commanded “DO.”Â
Contrary to what other hardcore believers who come and knock at your door sometimes that you have to be like them to be nice or to inherit a special room in heaven or so, truth is you don’t have to be a Christian to be nice.  Being nice and kind is not about religion or faith, it’s deeper than that or maybe more simple than that. Promise yourself some of these from this week onwards:
1) DO HELP SOMEONE WHO’S CLUELESS ABOUT WHAT HE/SHE NEEDS TO DO TO MAKE HIS/HER JOBÂ BE DONE IN AÂ BETTER/HAPPIER WAY.
2) DO BUY SOMEONE LUNCH OR SNACK. THIS WILL MAKE HER/HIM SMILE, AT LEAST A LITTLE.
3) DO CALL A FRIEND YOU HAVEN’T SPOKEN TO IN AGES. HE/SHE MAY NEED A LITTLE TIP OR TWO FROM YOU ANDÂ YOU MAY JUST SAVE HIM/HER FROM SOME KIND OF TROUBLE.
4) DO HUG A FRIEND, OR ANY OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER. IT’S CORNY BUT HUG POSESSES MAGIC THAT’S HARD TO EXPLAIN.Â
5) DO WAIT FOR PEOPLE TO EXIT THE MRT/BUS DOOR FIRST BEFORE YOU ENTER. IT’S JUST THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
6) DO SAY HI TO YOUR NEIGHBOUR EVEN IFÂ HE/SHE THINKS YOU’RE WEIRD. AT LEAST HE/SHE WOULD KNOW THAT THERE’S A WEIRD NEIGHBOUR IN THE HOOD WHO SAYS HI TO HIM/HER.
7) I’M RUNNING OUT OF WHAT DO’S TO TELL YOU BUT, PLEASE “DO BE NICE.”Â
Til then, this is SUPER M:) Hugs!